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Couples in the Generation Z, i.e., those born on and after 1996, are more likely to seek a prenuptial agreement before marrying, a YouGov survey found. Men and women of Generation Z trend towards being more comfortable with consulting with a solicitor before marriage and protecting their assets first. They are more likely to see no stigma in talking about their money and earnings, specially now that more and more women own and manage their own businesses.

There are many views on whether this realistic approach to marriage and protecting their assets robs the marriage of its romance and seems to imply less than the total trust to their partner in the love. Yet the most important question remains – does having a prenuptial agreement increase the chances of divorce or not?

Poll shows most people don’t believe so

Statistics regarding prenuptial vs non-prenuptial divorces are not available and would be weighed unevenly because those who sign pre-nuptial agreements are those who already have something to lose in a divorce, and the results would most likely bias towards rich vs poor.

According to the yougov poll results, 58% of respondents believe that having a prenuptial agreement doesn’t make a difference on the likelihood of divorce. About 44% believe that having a prenuptial agreement advising how to distribute assets is a good idea. However only 30% would, if they were getting married for the first time, would sign a prenuptial agreement.

Surprisingly, in 2014 only 23% of respondents then aged 18-24 would sign, while 31% and 33% of those aged 40-59 and over 60 years expressed their willingness to sign if they were first getting married again.

Prenups might not affect divorce rates as much, but does affect going through with the marriage

According to data supplied by Hall Brown Family Law, one in four couples who inquire about prenuptial agreements don’t go through with the marriage.

“As opposed to offering a constructive way of dividing assets should their marriage not last the course, they are highlighting very real and serious differences before a wedding which can actually affect the chances of a couple staying together in the long run,” said Sam Hall, senior partner of the firm.

The agreements were serving “a valuable, practical purpose quite apart from that for which they were originally intended”, he stated. “Some of those with whom we have dealt have initially expressed great regret at what happened but later acknowledged that their break-ups were less upsetting than might have been the case had they divorced.”

The divorce rate stands at 42%. For couples in the millennial and Z generations, the marriage age is being pushed back and tend to try to accumulate wealth and security first before attempting to have marriage and children. Many of these generation are also children of divorce and are predisposed to protect their assets.

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Prenups may ruin the romance, but does help couples through their marriage

One of the changes in mentality that Generation Z have compared to older generations is not seeing marriage as something worth preserving at all costs, but something that should not cause suffering for both people who sacrifice pieces of themselves towards a greater union.

A prenup is not just a way for a rich person to preserve their money, but also as a way to make sure that the one spouse that remains out of the workforce is adequately compensated for neglecting their possible career and nurturing their children while their spouse advances theirs. In addition, having one is a sign of trust that they are not just being married for their money.

If divorce is so disastrous that the prospect of having it is terrifying, that can trap spouses into a loveless or abusive marriage. In the event of a divorce, one of the two will find their prospects greatly diminished entering into the job market, which would hinder taking care of their children.

Generation Z gets talk about how going all-in with the marriage shows trust and leaves no room but to fight for it, while having a prenup signals that they are entering a marriage planning on its failure. Marriages in previous generations lasted for decades because they had no easy option for walking away.

Generation Z sees that divorce is common, and it is nasty, and they want no part of that for their own lives and their children.

Preparing a prenuptial agreement to strengthen your marriage

In the coming years, the trend will be to see how often millennials divorce, who have a different view of marriage than their parents. They don’t seek marriages as much for financial, religious, or family reasons and see marriage as a means for emotional fulfilment. They respect marriage more as legal commitment with much room for compromise.

In fact, some statistics show that divorce rate have dropped by as much as 16 percent in other countries. The marriage rate may be falling, but those who do get married have a greater chance of lasting longer than marriages entered ten years ago. How could this be?

Many point to how newer generations see marriage as a sign of status rather than just something ‘you have to do’, the increase in education and financial ability of those who enter into marriage, or that more and more choose not to enter into marriage in the first place.

Family solicitors in the UK have hit upon another increasing trend for marriages that seeks prenuptial agreements. They do so not to protect their money but to protect their emotions and mutual respect. Having a prenup means also having regular review clauses, such as having marriage, lasting a number of years, preparing for unexpected events like one of them being disabled or incapacitated in severe illness. Landmarks are set and potential troubles discussed, and transparency and fairness talked out ahead of time.

Generation Z no longer functions on a strategy of reckless optimism in marriage. When both parties plan for how their marriage fails, they also must take in mind how their marriage can fail and how to plan to address them before they become problems in the first place. Solicitors advise in their agreements that before entering into a divorce they must meet a required amount of marriage counseling.

Prenup agreements are not automatically enforceable

Prenups make divorce significantly less traumatic and faster to complete. Prenup agreements can be challenged, which is another reason not to think this is an easy way to get out of a marriage but rather an incentive to work towards preserving it.

The enforcement of a prenuptial agreement is up to the court’s view of fairness. According to Supreme Court case of Radmacher v Granatino from 2010, the court should “give effect … a full appreciation of its implications unless in the circumstances prevailing it would not be fair to hold the parties to their agreement”.

Prenuptial Agreements should also be sure that it was not entered in duress, that both parties had adequate disclosure and required legal advice. The court may also modify the agreement with regards to the contribution to non-economic aspects of family life and for the benefit of their children. Solicitors advise that a prenup is not a predictive contract. There is no guarantee that one spouse will remain the main financial contributor in the future.

But if prenuptial agreements in the UK are not legally binding, then why enter one in the first place?

Prenuptial agreements might not expressly have the force of law, but they do have great weight to the court. For many in Generation Z a prenup is not meant to get the court to protect their money but about respecting their individual autonomy.

It may seem like a prenup might not be “a very British thing”, as some may say, but it looks like that’s changing.

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Unexpectedly, same-sex marriage might force Northern Ireland to have a government again

England, Wales and Scotland all legalized same-sex unions in 2014. The Republic of Ireland voted in a referendum to legalize it in 2015. Northern Ireland remains one of the few territories within the EU zone that still bans same-sex marriages. Northern Ireland however possesses its own parliament, and their own independent judiciary and court system, though the highest court of appeal remains the UK Supreme Court. Northern Ireland also has its own unique issues, such as the fact that it doesn’t quite have a government right now.

The British Parliament decided to slide past the collapsed Northern Irish Assembly to force the government of Northern Ireland to legalize both abortion and same-sex marriages. Landslide votes in the House of Commons do not yet automatically change the law in Northern Ireland. However, since the Assembly in Stormont, East Belfast remains defunct since its collapse in 2017, if this assembly doesn’t resume its duties by the deadline of October 21, the amendments will stand and come to force.

MPs from the Democratic Unionist Party (DUP) voted against and argued that the parliament in London was drastically overreaching their grasp and such matters should remain to be resolved by Stormont. And they will. If the DUP and Sinn Fein could come back to terms in the assembly and restore the government.

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Unexpectedly, many different-sex couples want to have the right to have Civil Partnerships over Marriage too

Prior to the legalization of same-sex marriage in the UK, there was Civil Partnership Act 2004 that allowed them to enter into civil partnerships rather than marriages. Over time the rights assigned to civil partnerships have been much the same as marriage. Unexpectedly, it was raised that the Civil Partnerships Act 2004 might be against the EU Convention on Human Rights for being discriminatory.

The Civil Partnerships, Marriage and Deaths (Registration etc.) Act 2019 will formalize options allowed to heterosexual couples who wish to enter into a civil partnership rather than marriage. Why would they prefer this form of civil union? Here are some reasons:

  1. Marriage carries with it the historical and religious ‘baggage’ that the couple may feel uncomfortable with endorsing.
  2. Marriage is a rite that involves inviting family and friends and hosting a celebration afterwards, some may feel this is too expensive or an invasion of their privacy.
  3. Cohabiting couples are surprised to learn that they don’t actually have as many protections equivalent to marriage as they had assumed.
  4. This will allow transition from or into marriage if one of the couple undergoes a sex change operation.
  5. Legitimacy for children born at a time parents were not formally married.
  6. The recognition of overseas relationships.
  7. Etc.

Voiding a civil partnership is similar to divorcing, often served by the same form and assisted by the same divorce solicitors. There are some peculiarities to civil partnerships however, such as adultery by itself not a valid ground for dissolution, and of course that it may be voided by entering into marriage.

Expectedly, No Fault Divorce will make divorce easier and less costly

The current system of divorce is adversarial, which induce unnecessary stress on the family. Regulations state that one party must be at fault, or that living with them is intolerable. Couples must live apart for at least two years before they may separate fully. Also, one party may deny the divorce – but if they live apart for five years only then will consent no longer be required.

The consultation paper Reducing Family Conflict: Reform of the Legal Requirements for Divorce also stated how the current law aggravates family conflict.

  • A. The question of fault forces couples to take up hostile positions

The need to cite evidence means digging up whatever allegations necessary to prove fault, which may aggravate and humiliate the respondent that the marriage itself becomes irreparable. The defense process increases acrimony, instead of a solution to family justice.

Once the petition has been filed – because of the need to prove fault and the provisions that require lengthy separation before a non-acrimonious dissolution is granted – this strictly works against agreement and reconciliation that could have saved the marriage.

  • B. The law doesn’t actually address the reasons why the marriage breaks down

The divorce petition is concerned only with the fact that the marriage has broken down, not why. The reasons given in the petition may not even be true, but simply the easiest and fastest option for both concerned. Adultery, separation, and other acts that may be grounds for divorce could be simply symptomatic of a desire to dissolve the matrimony.

  • C. The law is open to manipulation

The current law was remarked to be ‘procedurally unfair’, with only 2.28% of all petitions are actually contested in court. Due to the need to provide evidence, even if respondents may agree to the divorce, they may feel it is necessary to disagree vehemently with the allegations in particular used to support the petition.

In practice, many family lawyers and judges feel that the defense is costly, unhelpful, and ultimately futile and imposes unnecessary burden on the courts. Furthermore, outcomes usually reflect the relative bargaining capacity of both parties, and can be misused by vindictive spouses to make the divorce unnecessarily difficult. Divorce terms can be financially abusive even after escaping an emotionally abusive marriage.

Divorce petitions can be considered not a legal issue in itself but a means to construct a narrative that would secure a legal divorce. Those involved, even when they both agree, are highly incentivized to manufacture ‘facts’ to support their petition.

  • D. The current law does not support the emotional needs of children

Research has shown that although children are inevitably affected when their parents separate, it is a far greater cause for social and behavioural problems to see the hostility between them. Where children have been encouraged to take sides, their relationship with both parents are instead impacted severely as from the conflict of loyalties and a child’s keen awareness of hypocrisy.

Furthermore, due to the artificial requirements of consensual separation as grounds for divorce, many are forced by financial reasons to live ‘separately’ as two households under one roof. This creates an artificial atmosphere that is confusion and harmful to children.

Proposed changes to reform the divorce process are concerned with three main outcomes.

  • That the decision to divorce is a measured one, that gives spouses all opportunity to change course.
  • That they are not put to legal requirements and hardship that do not serve their or the state’s interests.
  • To avoid ongoing conflict and poor outcomes for children.

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Unexpectedly, the UK actually sees the lowest level of divorce rates in 45 years

According to the Office of National Statistics, in 2017, there were 101,699 divorces down from 106,959 of 2016. This is the lowest since 1973. Divorces peaked in 1993 with 165,018; 1985 with 160, 300; and first in 1972 with 119, 025. However what is missing is that 1972 was also the record highest in marriages with 426, 241 marriages that year. There were much less divorce rates prior to the Divorce Reform Act of 1969, effective 1971, for obvious reasons.

All this shows is the ongoing decline in couples choosing to get married, which means overall there are fewer couples to divorce,” spoke Frank Young, head of family policy at the Centre for Social Justice, explaining that the drop in divorce rates was no reason to celebrate. “Marriage is increasingly a middle-class perk with 87 per cent of higher earners getting married compared to only 24 per cent of lower earners.

Since the 1970s, marriage rates have been decreasing while the divorce rates have more or less managed to remain stable. Waxing nostalgic about 33% of divorces happens when there are 426, 249 marriages to merely 119,025 divorces. In recent years over 45% of marriages end in divorce because since the 1990s, marriages dropped hard below the 300,000 per year rate while divorces hovered around the 160,000 per year rate. 2015 was the best of recent years at 42%, with 239, 020 marriages compared to 101,055 divorces.

It is hoped that by making marriage easier, and making it less painful to separate, this might encourage more marriages that promote stability in the family; wherein there are two partners facing the same challenges and giving support to their children.

Women should not need marriage for financial security and social status and, increasingly, they don’t. Often, marriage makes women poorer, because it creates dependents,” Tanya Gold wrote for The Observer.

 

Weird Facts about UK Lawyers

The United Kingdom has some of the oldest bodies of law in the world. Many of its laws and traditions were foundational for the whole concept of modern democracy. However this continuous grand tradition built over thousands of years also carries with it certain peculiarities that baffle others looking from the outside.

Here are the top 10 weird facts about lawyers and the practice of law in the United Kingdom.

1. The difference between solicitors and barristers

In the practice of law, you might consider the difference between a solicitor and a barrister like that of a general practitioner and a specialist surgeon.

Solicitors deal with clients directly, while barristers are referred to cases by a solicitor. They act as advocates in legal hearings thus they stand in court and plead the case in behalf of the client.

Unlike other countries, where an attorney may be expected to do everything from advising the client, facilitate negotiations, draft legal documents and then travel to see clients and represent them in court – solicitors and barristers have separate duties. Historically, barristers have a “right of audience” with the higher courts and was meant to be an independent operator that do not cultivate long-term client relationships.

But perhaps the most tangible difference is that a Barrister also wears a wig and a gown in court. Yes, those are a required dress code for normal proceedings.

2. The meaning of Esquire

Esquire (abbreviated Esq.) a term of British origin which in Britain, is an unofficial title of respect to denote a high but indeterminate social status. A person who graduates from Law School and pass the state licensing exam (called the Bar Exam), may add the initials J.D. which stands for Juris Doctor or the degree garnered. Once that person has gone thru the rigorous process of taking and passing the state Bar Examination, they can be referred to by the Esquire title. It is then that Esq. is written after her name, instead of J.D.

3. Barristers are required to join an Honorable Society based on an inn

A Barrister must take a one year Bar Professional Training Course in place of the Solicitors’ Legal Practice Course and then they are called to “bar” at one of the four inns where they do a yard ‘pupillage’ shadowing a senior barrister and undertaking some court work.

There are about 150 applicants in one chamber for pupillage. Thus the applicants should make the Application form very engaging so as not to bore the ones who would review their pupillage applications.

The inns are: 1) Inner Temple, b) Gray’s Inn, c) Middle Temple,and d) Lincoln’s Inn, all of which are located in London. These Inns of Court provide dining, residential, office and library accommodations to its members.

4. They have to attend fancy dinners and even karaoke

Once they qualified in any of the inn they applied for, they have to attend the twelve (12) qualifying sessions at the inn which may include fancy dinners, even karaoke (at Middle Temple, at least), in addition to lectures on legal topics and advocacy training workshops.

5. The Queen’s Counsel barristers are known as “silks”

The Queen’s Counsel are a group of senior barristers of at least ten years’ practice that are appointed by an selection panel to serve as “one of Her Majesty’s counsel learned in the law”. They appear at the bar wearing silk gowns while junior barristers wear “stuff”, or gowns made of worsted wool.

6. More than half of those studying law in the UK universities come from overseas

Law Student Applicants from Overseas is higher at 58.01% than from UK students at 41.98%. The the percentage of successful applicants from UK is higher at 72.5% than from overseas at 67.6% (2015-2016). Nevertheless, you might expect to see more than half law students to be foreign students.

The number of applications to law universities in the UK for the period of 2015-2016 was for UK students, 23,885 and for overseas students, 33,010. At 72.5% and 67.6% respectively, the results are 17,335 and 22,320 students. A grounding in UK law is not only for those who wish to establish a legal practice, but also for those who wish to do business in and around the UK.

7. Becoming a Barrister is not cheap

We’re not even talking about education fees or the price of books. You need to shell out around £ 150 for the gown alone, € 560 for the wig, plus a nice bag for £75 and £270 for the case to keep your required dress looking pristine.

Most barristers are self-employed and work in Chambers with other barristers so they share costs of accommodation. They are not allowed to form partnerships or become part of a corporation, although they can be the first resort of solicitors who represent certain clients. Unlike high-power corporate attorneys, barristers due to the cab rank rule are not allowed to refuse a case as long as it remains within their specialty.

8. Barristers in Chambers can work against each other

It is noted that about 80% of barristers around England and Wales are self-employed, the rest being employed in the agencies like the Crown Prosecution Service, solicitor’s firms, or specialized legal departments in industries, commerce, and local governments. Most of them work in shared offices known as Chambers with other barristers.

However, all barristers within a chamber are independent from each other and may often act opposing each other in the same case. By contrast, solicitors in the same law firm are prevented from doing so for sake a conflict of interest.

9. No overtime for Salaried Barristers and Solicitors

A solicitor is paid better than a barrister right out of the gate, though their actual pay scale differs greatly between extremes. For Barristers’ practice of Law, the average NQ (Newly Qualified) Barrister for Criminal Law is similar to Family Law, at £20,000. Of course practitioners versed in commercial law have higher costs at £70,000.

According to 2016 statistics, these are the starting salaries:

Trainee Level £18,000-43,000+ £12,000-60,000+
Newly Qualified £50,000-90,000+ £73,000-300,000+

A City trainee solicitor starts on a salary of £36-40k per year and jumps to £60-70k once they are fully qualified (which takes two years). But then they work 40-70% more than their contracted hours and, aside from social exclusion amongst their non-lawyer friends, they do not get overtime.

10) Barristers are not allowed to advertise

A solicitor is a non-trial lawyer that engages the client directly and handles legal representations and transactions. They don’t, unless they are a solicitor advocate, make court appearances. Barristers deal with the court and doesn’t deal with the paperwork, they are instead retained by the solicitor on behalf of their client. The client never actually directly contacts the barristers.

Going back to the doctor’s analogy again – having a barrister is like your doctor referring you to a heart surgeon. After the operation the surgeon has no more to do with you, but your doctor will take care of your hospitalization and recovery.

A barrister, like a surgeon, is not allowed to advertise their skill and put their work out on the open market but instead get work via word of mouth, repeat business, and being contacted by relevant agencies. Solicitors however are allowed to advertise and can move around the country, doing what most people would visualize as lawyer-y work.